tough

It's unpleasant to struggle through something with a team.

You can romanticize the closeness that it will create - the afterglow - but the moment when you test someone's mettle is terrifying. 

It's not actually hard on me so much as it's at odds with my self-concept: I want to be demanding but forgiving, supportive, based in trust, respectful of targeted effort. 

That said, a sentiment I couldn't help but agree with:

"If I have to choose between a struggling party that's working their a** off or someone slacking, the slacker is easier: just demand they work harder. If they're already killing themselves, you need a more complex prescription..." 

 

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